Hello everyone. First of all I would like to say how wonderful it is to know that others are going through or have gone through what I am experiencing right now.
I just recently met my fiance's other half about a year and a half ago. When I first found out I was outraged. Was he gay? Bi? Cheating? He didn't do much research for himself and was unable to clearly explain to me what was going on. All I understood was that he was wearing my panties...and being the oldest of three sisters who constantly took my clothes, that was a big no no.
So much went through my mind. Lately, I wonder if he is more interested in himself than me. I told him that I would try to be ok with this, however, I am not sexually interested in him when he's a she and I don't want to feel like I have to join in on sexual encounters. Why is it such a sexual arousal for him?
I decided t! hat I would try to be ok with this only a month ago after reading a letter one wife wrote about her experience. They loved eachother and they compromised and it was worth it for them. She said that he was sweeter and more sincere and fun to be around. I just don't know what i can do to tame the sexual part of crossdressing.
I need someone to talk to about this. I have read the "reasons" why some men do this, and really I want to be fine with it. But I'm struggling so much with understanding his arousal by himself in women's clothes.